Tag: control

  • Welcome to the Club

    Welcome to the Club

    This month marked my official induction into the Survivorship Program. I know that phrase should be encouraging, but I didn’t ask for this membership. Never downloaded the app, never registered my email, yet here I am. In the club. This brought so many emotions. I had to reach out to a few of my breast…

  • What to Say When You Don’t Know What to Say

    What to Say When You Don’t Know What to Say

    I had a long talk on the way home yesterday with a good friend of mine who trekked through this same journey a few years ago. She was helping a woman in her club that had gotten notification of an abnormal mammogram. It hit me that just two short months ago, I was getting that…

  • Taking Risks

    Taking Risks

    “Life is short.“It’s tossed around so often that it loses weight — like background noise. Until one day, it isn’t noise anymore. It’s a roaring truth. The “C” word has a way of bringing everything into brutal focus. For someone like me who is a calculated planner, it injected a level of uncertainty that put…